“1-2-3 Go!”
Meddlers are the most intelligent and insightful beings out there! However, they are also the most manipulating and crafty buggers ever seen. Being so smart often times messes with their brains; and they start using their powers for evil instead of for good…we know you would never do that, right?!! 
How do You meddle?
OPTION 1. You’ve perfected all that you can in your life and now you what to convey “what works best” to everyone you know.
OPTION 2. It is way too hard to deal with and move forward on your own life’s path, so you choose to involve yourself with another’s.
OPTION 3. You’ve always been a care-taker and now you want to “take care” of everyone else.
OPTION 4. You’re bored.
OPTION 5. You have no idea you meddle.
If you have chosen one or several of these options as being true and accurate, no problem-thanks for the honesty and honestly we can assist you into a shift out of meddling and into caring-ooh, that sounds great!!
Steps For Using Your Brilliance For Good:
1. Pretend you don’t know anything!!!
We know that sounds super crazy to you, but you have to relinquish your need to be the “know-it-all” and start being the You that only knows compassion and understanding. Halt your urges to solve problems, rather activate your desires for close connections.
2. Get off the gossip train.
You KNOW better! Misery loves company, but what type of company are you keeping if it involves making others feel bad and putting others down. You are smart enough to know that you are only getting/giving one side to the two-sided story. **Plus, when you spread gossip to another, that person knows when they turn their back you’ll be gossiping about them too…gross.
3. Judging another person’s situation = your lack of ability to judge your own situations.
Stop talking about what’s going on in another’s world and start really focusing on what’s going on in yours. The reason you latch onto someone’s life is because you have nothing going on in yours. When you start getting exciting about your life, you’ll want to share THAT with people instead of commiserating over another person’s unexciting moments.
4. Stop being needy!
When your brain shifts from confidence and empowerment and goes to neediness and insecurity everyone loses. Are the people you’re dealing with still in diapers?-if not, they don’t need you, and you don’t want them to need you. You want them to be self-reliant and independent! When you need them to need you, you will never allow them or you to be free. Without freedom no adult will ever grow up and succeed.
5. Teach, don’t taunt.
You are so intelligent that wisdom is oozing out of you-please be smart enough to direct it in useful ways. If you are just belittling people because “they don’t know,” they will never know. Please lead by example and teach them how to use their gifts and how to solve their own problems. Engage them, redirect questions back to them, make them expand upon their initial intentions, keep them motivated, encourage their efforts, applaud their successes.
You need to guide individuals down the path toward their own brilliance. By intruding and interrupting this flow, you are stopping any chance they have for success-and you’re being really annoying. Listen, Love, and Let Go!!! Anything other than that is just plain dumb.
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